Title. Gum. Out. What word do we all share?

I’m a sudden urge that comes out of the blue, A fleeting desire that pulls you to do. No careful plan, just a spontaneous thing, I can make you act on a thought in a swing.

Warning note that this has red herrings. This is where you sleep, You also go here to read. But you can still do anything in this ___

I have wheels. I'm strung out for the kids. I need a very specific environment to mature like a cellar or a cave. I accompany wine for a classic and elegant pairing. And people shout my name when getting their picture taken. What am I?

You may be driven or you may drive me, But neither vehicle nor sheep I be, Say me thrice with juice to summon a ghost, Or mispell me slightly and Tomorrow Never Knows